A response to the "Sex" issue from Dawn

I think that the idea of relationships today has greatly changed from what is was intended to be according to my belief in the bible and it's teaching. I think that it is possibly quite often true that when a man shows attention or affection toward a woman that he is looked at as a sleaze who is just looking for some action, but I believe that this is probably because that's what a lot of guys do unfortunately have in mind when they start to approach a woman, and so some women might shut you out because of past experiences, or some may just be uninterested. I completely agree that women should have complete control over their own bodies, and that men should respect that, and not be shallow enough to go after a women for sex, but should instead pursue a women with the intention of getting to know her better. I do not think that only wives should be considered the property of their husbands, but I think that Wives and Husbands should be the property of each other, and live a live devoted to each other, and God, and should remain faithful in their marriage with each other. I also believe that sex should be something that is reserved for marriage between a man and a woman, and I think that if more people were willing to wait until marriage it would drastically cut down on these feelings of women thinking we are pursuing them just for sex.
I think that is funny that alot of guys like this passage from the bible that says "1Wives, in the same way be submissive to your husbands so that, if any of them do not believe the word, they may be won over without words by the behavior of their wives, " or "18Wives, submit to your husbands, as is fitting in the Lord. " While these things said are true and should be followed, they cannot be taken out of context because the bible also says, "19Husbands, love your wives and do not be harsh with them. ", and "7Husbands, in the same way be considerate as you live with your wives, and treat them with respect..." So while wives should be submissive and loving to their husbands that is not supposed to be one way, it should come along with love, fairness, and faithfullness from the husband.
So, in short, I think that it should be the man that pursues the woman, and he should be open and honest with said woman, and make his intentions known to her, and these intentions should be with respect for her. And the women should have the right to respectfully decline, and leave it at that.